Wednesday, June 4, 2008

Disbelief



One of my favourite things about my blog when I was keeping it up regularly was the dialogue it allowed me to have with my Dad. My Dad and I had always been close - I always looked up to him and prided myself in the ways we were alike. Some of my best conversations were 10 pm chats with my Dad. It was my Dad that I always called if it felt like my world was falling apart and I needed someone to talk to. And today he is gone. And I can't believe it. And I don't know what to do and this feels like a silly exercise because there must be something more productive I could do while waiting for the clothes to be ready to pack so we can catch our flight home to be with my Mum but I just don't know what that is. And I just can't believe he's gone. And I wish I had written that Father's Day letter to him that I wanted to write last year that was so hard to write because words really couldn't capture how much he meant to me. I wish I had written about the incredible strength he provided to us when my brother died. The evenness he brought to enraged teenaged battles. The calm wisdom. And I just can't believe he is gone. And I am so glad I hugged not long ago but God I just wish I had more time.

3 comments:

Michael Joyal said...

Hi Cammy,

My heart goes out to you & Jay for the loss of your father. He was a wonderful man. I felt so welcomed whenever I visited. I'll always remember him in his chair, smoking a pipe.

Winter said...

Cammy - I am so, so sorry for your loss.

Mamma Schmoo said...

Miss you, love you....always thinking about you.
N